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  • Orthorexia Nervosa Explained: When Healthy Eating Becomes Harmful

    Orthorexia Nervosa, although not yet recognised as an official diagnosis, is as serious a health concern as any other mental health disorder. It is defined as a fixation on “clean” or “healthy” eating to the extent that it negatively impacts both mental and physical health. Being mindful of what we eat is one thing, but with Orthorexia Nervosa, the obsession with only eating “healthy” food starts to take over their daily life, making it harder to cope with eating anything else not considered “clean”.

    With Orthorexia Nervosa, “clean” and “healthy” food usually refers to foods seen as free from anything considered harmful to their health – like pesticides, artificial flavourings, preservatives, processed ingredients, or added sugar. But their reasoning for eliminating food from their diet is not necessarily about what their body needs nutritionally. Instead, it’s based on personal beliefs about what is ‘safe’ to eat. Over time, these self-imposed rules around food can start to take over their daily life. Thoughts about food become constant, and breaking a rule – like eating something “unhealthy”, e.g., chocolate – can cause anxiety, guilt, and a sense of failure. A person’s self-worth can become deeply tied to how well they stick to their eating rules. Research has shown that the restrictive behaviours associated with Orthorexia can be a way to cope with deeper emotinal distress or to achieve a sense of control when other areas of life feel overwhelming.

    The Impacts on the Body

    • Malnutrition
    • Hormonal imbalances (e.g., irregular or no menstrual cycle)
    • Anemia
    • Weight loss
    • Osteoporosis
    • Weakened immune system
    • Fatigue
    • Digestive problems
    • Hair loss or thinning, and brittle nails

    Social Impacts

    • Avoiding social events involving food
    • Feeling isolated, excluded, and lonely
    • Increased stress
    • Strained relationships due to rigid eating rules
    • Work and academic performance can be negatively affected
    • Lowered quality of life

    Certain individuals who are more at risk of developing Orthorexia Nervosa. These include people with perfectionist traits, a history of eating disorders, athletes, fitness influencers, people with chronic illnesses, and anyone heavily influenced by diet culture or wellness trends. For some, the condition is closely linked to health anxiety- fear about getting sick, becoming worse, or staying healthy – with orthorexia possibly feeling like a way to gain control over their health. Similarly, people with a prior history of eating disorders may shift their focus from weight, body image, and food quantity to a fixation on quality and eating only “healthy” foods. Even though the focus changes, the core tendencies of anxiety, need for control, and rigid food rules typically persist.

    Social media can also play a big role in reinforcing orthorexic behaviour and thoughts, especially if individuals have constant exposure to ‘clean eating’ trends, unrealistic wellness standards, and nutritional misinformation that creates fear or guilt around eating certain foods. With the rise of social media, it’s easier than ever for anyone to post about food and nutrition – often without proper knowledge or qualifications. While some creators have good intentions, many unknowingly share misleading information that can be harmful, especially to those vulnerable to disordered eating habits.

    As it is not yet recognised by the Disorder Statistical Manual (5th) or the International Classification of Diseases (11th), there are no formal, standardised treatments specifically designed for treating Orthorexia Nervosa. However, that doesn’t mean no treatment is available. Studies have shown that many people have benefited from being followed by a team consisting of a doctor, psychologist, and dietician who can help with both the physical and mental aspects of the condition. Recovery will involve helping reshape a persons’ understanding of food and moving away from labels like “clean” and “unhealthy”, to encourage more balanced and flexible eating habits.

    When to Seek Help and Where

    If you find your thoughts about food are causing stress, anxiety, or disrupting your daily life, and you no longer take joy in eating, you are not alone – and you don’t have to manage it on your own either. Reaching out to a doctor, psychologist, or dietician can be a helpful first step towards rewriting your relationship with food. And if you notice these signs in someone close to you, consider checking in with them – sometimes a simple “How are you doing?” can help them feel seen and encourage them to seek support.

    You can reach out to:

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  • OCD: A Parent’s Perspective

    There is a unique kind of heartache that comes from watching your child struggle with something you cannot fix. For many parents, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) brings that feeling into sharp focus – the confusion, the helplessness, the desperate wish to take their pain away.

    OCD is often misunderstood. It’s not just about tidiness or handwashing. It’s not a quirk or a preference. It’s a mental health condition that can be incredibly distressing, both for the individual and those who love them.

    OCD involves a cycle of intrusive thoughts (obsessions) and repetitive behaviours (compulsions) carried out to reduce the anxiety those thoughts create. These obsessions can centre around contamination, harm, illness, symmetry – and they are unwanted, frightening, and persistent. The compulsions, such as excessive cleaning, checking, or avoiding certain people or places, are attempts to feel safe. But relief is short-lived, and the cycle repeats. It’s not about choice – it’s about fear, and it can take over everything.

    It is important to also address how misunderstood OCD can be. In everyday conversations, we often hear people say “I’m a bit OCD” when they like a clean house and or prefer things organised. But OCD is not a personality trait or a love of neatness – it’s a serious anxiety disorder. It’s driven by fear, not preference. The compulsions are not satisfying or enjoyable – they’re exhausting. When we casually misuse the term, we unintentionally minimise the distress that real OCD causes. That can make it even harder for children and families to feel seen and understood.

    For me, it wasn’t until my child was getting through a bottle of soap a day, refusing to turn off lights when leaving a room, avoiding door handles, and distancing themselves from anyone they deemed “unhealthy” that I realised how deeply the intrusive thoughts had taken hold. What started as a small habit quietly grew into something that impacted every part of their life. And as a parent, witnessing that – knowing they were fighting a terrifying internal world – has been heart-breaking.

    One of the hardest things to accept is the content of the intrusive thoughts – how real and terrifying they feel to our children. My son’s fear centres around contamination and magical thinking. If he doesn’t wash his hands or pump the soap bottle an exact number of times – it has to be an even number between 32 and 48 – he believes that I or his siblings will come to serious harm. It doesn’t matter how many times I reassure him it isn’t true – the anxiety convinces him that this ritual is the only thing keeping us safe. And as a parent, that is a crushing weight to witness.

    What made it harder were the emotions that followed. I felt guilt – for not recognising it sooner, for not knowing how to respond. I felt fear – about the future, about his wellbeing, and whether things would ever get better. There have been days of overwhelming helplessness, wanting so badly to take away his suffering but not knowing how. And sometimes, I’ve felt frustrated – not with him, but with OCD itself, which has stolen time, peace, and normality from our family. These feelings are heavy – but they are also human.

    And yet, there is one thing I hold onto: Hope.

    With the right support, things can and do get better. It may not happen overnight, and progress might not always be visible – but it’s happening. Every small win, every moment of courage, every step toward recovery matters.

    We are just at the beginning of our journey, but already, we have seen glimmers of change. With the right support systems in place – compassionate professionals, practical strategies, and space to talk openly – we are moving forward. And you can too.

    Coping Strategies That Have Helped So Far.

    • Routine and structure, balanced with flexibility
    • Reassurance, let them know they are ok and the are not alone
    • Open, non-judgemental conversations about intrusive thoughts
    • Celebrating small wins, even if they seem “minor” to others
    • Self-care as a parent – because supporting someone with OCD is emotionally demanding.

    Support and Resources for Children, Teens and Parents

    For Children & Adolescents with OCD

    • OCD-UK Youth – education, real stories, and guidance tailored to young people
    • CAMHS – NHS Mental Health Support for under-18s
    • No Panic Youth Hub – tools for managing anxiety and intrusive thoughts
    • YoungMinds – crisis support, advice, and resources for children and families

    For Parents and Carers

    • OCD-UK Parent Support – practical advice and reassurance for parents
    • Mind – OCD in Children – signs, symptoms, and how to help
    • The Mix – support for parents and carers of young people under 25

    Books

    • Breaking Free of Child Anxiety and OCD by Eli R. Lebowitz
    • Talking Back to OCD by John S. March

    Treatment Note: The most evidence-based treatment for OCD is Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), specifically a method called Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP). It can be life-changing with the right guidance and support.

    Final Thoughts

    If you’re reading this and feeling lost, tired, or unsure where to start – please know: you are not alone. Your feelings are valid. You’re not failing. You’re a parent doing the best you can in an incredibly hard situation.

    OCD is not stronger than love. With the right support, patience, and understanding, progress is possible. We’re on that journey now – and though we’re only at the beginning, we’ve already seen how far compassion, information, and connection can take us.

    Let’s keep talking. Let’s make space for parents, for children, and for the hope that healing brings.

    Read more: OCD: A Parent’s Perspective
  • The Differences between Mental Health and Mental Illness

    The terms mental health and mental illness are often used interchangeably. Some of us may be wondering, “Aren’t they referring to the same thing?”. The short answer is no – and understanding the difference will help minimise misconceptions and stigma. So, what’s the difference?

    Mental health, just like physical health, is something everyone has. It refers to our emotional, psychological, and social well-being, and it fluctuates throughout our lives. Having good mental health does not mean we are always happy; it’s about our ability to handle the ups and downs of life regardless of whether we are having a good or bad day.

    When we speak about mental illness, we are referring to conditions that affect our mood, how we think, feel, and behave on a daily basis for a long period of time – often being present for a minimum of 6 months. While our mental health can change from day-to-day, mental illness is an ongoing condition that has more persistent symptoms that affect our ability to function.

    Mental illnesses look different in everyone and are not always visible. Symptom types and severity can change over time, and treatment – such as therapy, medication or both – is often needed. Not only is mental illness complex and varied, but so is the path to recovery. For example, getting diagnosed with depression does not mean we will have depression for the rest of our life as we can make a full recovery. On the other hand, schizophrenia is often chronic, although some individuals experience significant improvement with the management of symptoms or remission.

    We can have poor mental health without having a mental illness. This can look like feeling overwhelmed or burned out. In turn, we can also have a mental illness and have periods of good mental health, like someone with anxiety managing their symptoms and functioning well. Together we can spread awareness to help reduce stigma and encourages early intervention and self-care.

    Read more: The Differences between Mental Health and Mental Illness